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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 22.06.2025 06:32

How does one succeed in life?

Ask yourself:

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Hangs out with loser friends.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

What I need from you?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Should I get into any menial job without any thinking? I am just a BA pass and belong to the middle class.

Does not procrastinate.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

That's it for today.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Have you worn a tight black mini skirt?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Procrastinates a lot.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Making more friends is a goal.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).